Daftar Al Zaman 4: Spirit of folk culture

Dr Al Naqbi explained, “Today, we introduce another set of proverbs that reflect different aspects of daily life. We begin with the saying: ‘Dates need fronds, bread needs its crust, and a husband needs kindness.’ This proverb emphasises the necessity of giving everything in life what it truly takes to achieve the desired outcome. Another proverb states, ‘He does not know his elbow from his knee,’ referring to situations where people assume they understand something simple, only to realise they actually do not.”

Proverbs that capture human behaviour

Continuing with his exploration of proverbs, Al Naqbi shares, “The saying ‘I do not know where the crescent moon has appeared’ is used when someone disappears and then reappears unexpectedly. It is often said to a dear friend who has been absent for a long time or after a period of estrangement, signifying longing and joy at their return. Another proverb, ‘Whoever eats a date must thank the one who gave it to him,’ underlines the importance of expressing gratitude for any kindness received.”

Dr Al Naqbi also highlights the proverb: ‘Hold on to your madman until someone even madder comes along.’ This serves as a caution to appreciate what one has instead of seeking something new that could bring greater trouble. Another proverb, ‘He who talks too much loses respect,’ warns against excessive chatter and gossip, which can lead people to avoid and dislike an overly talkative individual.

Wisdom in everyday experiences

Al Naqbi further explains a proverb that advises, ‘If you want something to seem easier, consider it does not exist.’ This is often said to comfort someone facing a difficult problem, encouraging them to downplay the issue for peace of mind. Similarly, the proverb ‘Live near water, and you will never have to worry about sustenance’ implies that those who reside near fresh water sources enjoy both drinking water and the ability to cultivate crops, ensuring their livelihood. Another saying, ‘Whoever seeks roses must endure thorns,’ conveys that achieving valuable goals, wealth, or prestigious positions requires patience and effort, as expressed in the well-known phrase, ‘He who courts a beautiful woman does not mind the high dowry.’

The podcast also discusses the proverb, ‘He who does not risk loss will not gain,’ which serves as advice to novice traders seeking quick profits. It teaches that success in trade requires patience and learning from failures. Another saying, ‘A long robe burdens its wearer,’ describes someone inexperienced who struggles when placed in a role beyond their abilities. Additionally, the proverb ‘A bundle is stronger than a single stick’ underscores the strength found in unity, emphasising that collective decisions hold greater value than those of an individual.

Lessons from the Emirati Proverbs

The popular Gulf proverb ‘He who rises early prospers’ highlights the benefits of an early start, associating the morning with productivity and strength. The fourth episode of the Daftar Al Zaman podcast delves into various proverbs that describe the human condition, including those that reflect the futility of regret after a crisis has already occurred. Other proverbs depict the arrogance of those who see themselves as superior to others.

Dr Al Naqbi concludes with the saying, ‘Blame falls on the tied goat,’ which is used when someone fails to complete a task and blames an unrelated factor. Another proverb, ‘Preparing the swaddling cloth before the baby is born,’ warns against premature actions and assumptions.

Emirati proverbs serve as a treasury of wisdom and moral lessons, carefully crafted and passed down through generations. They have long provided guidance in shaping individuals and communities, offering insight and advice for navigating daily life.